A little while ago I was talking about my recently disastrous Tinder experiences to a female friend who had just signed up to the app for the first time.Spoiler: she…
I just had one of my worst ever breakups – here’s what I did wrong
You’ve seen something like it in your own dating life. You have a partner who is sexy and wise in ways you haven’t often seen before. You provide company for…
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Tips on cunnilingus – and why tips on cunnilingus don’t work
Whatever women say, I believe there is no (excuse the phrase) “silver bullet” when it comes to cunnilingus. Every woman is just too different.
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I’m a dating newbie. Is it true Tinder is mainly for hookups?
Some newbies to the world of online dating avoid Tinder because they’re scared it’s just for hookups. Is that fear justified?
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Why I am not Ok with OkCupid
I sometimes feel like all the cool kids are hanging out on OkCupid (the polyamorous and glamorous ones anyway) and I’m not invited to join them. Or is it just a badly designed app that makes one feel that way?
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Online dating during covid: is lockdown making me uglier?
In the rush for the world’s media to find great things about lockdown to write about (working from home, doing yoga, tending to our enormous gardens) they’ve quite forgotten another.It’s…
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Online dating gone wrong: I find my date’s dogs really needy
My new girlfriend and I were having sex in her bed. The sex was great. We had really clicked in the bedroom. There was just one problem – her sheets…
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The three words you should never start a Tinder chat with
You might think it sounds accessible and friendly. It sounds deadly dull and has no easy comeback. Avoid the dreaded “how’s it going?” in dating convos.
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Online dating gone wrong: Help! My date has a 10-month-old baby
I’ve done a lot of weird stuff on second dates – some of it even involving large quantities of lubricant and the farthest darkest reaches of my imagination.But my latest…
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How virtual BDSM sex with a Tinder match made lockdown better (part 2)
I don’t usually start the sexy chat right after starting talking to a Tinder match and still less often find myself how to indulge a woman’s passion for pain but…
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