There’s a good way and a bad way to handle romantic rejection. Here’s a terrible way

There’s a good way and a bad way to handle romantic rejection. Here’s a terrible way

As a Brit living in a foreign city I often get potential dates telling me "ooh you are English, you must be quite the gentleman."I've never actually considered myself to ...

Beware “audition-style” dating

Beware “audition-style” dating

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I was on what felt like a great first date the other day when I had a strange feeling it wasn't going to work out.This was nothing to do with ...

The guys who fake orgasms in the name of feminism

The guys who fake orgasms in the name of feminism

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Ladies faking their orgasms might have a long and distinguished history in the arts in such films as When Harry Met Sally.It's much harder to find any reference to male ...

Why Bumble’s “female-friendly” features make it worse for men AND women

Why Bumble’s “female-friendly” features make it worse for men AND women

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You know those needy dating profiles: "I'm fun, friendly, caring, positive and my friends say I'm absolutely wonderful even if I'm a bit crazy. Believe me, I'm a great catch!!!!"? ...

Not all women are shy when it comes to playing with a guy’s family jewels. My fling with a nut-crazed “squirrel”

Not all women are shy when it comes to playing with a guy’s family jewels. My fling with a nut-crazed “squirrel”

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A few months ago I had a brief romance with a friend I'm going to call "the squirrel".The romance was brief because she was on holiday in my city and ...

How to tell if your date is into you. Part 2: Messaging

How to tell if your date is into you. Part 2: Messaging

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Let's be honest here: dating at any age is full of uncertainty and lies and people aren't always telling the thruth about whether they are really into you or not. ...

Post-lockdown dating: my date would have sex with me — but she wouldn’t kiss me

Post-lockdown dating: my date would have sex with me — but she wouldn’t kiss me

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I was worried that post-lockdown dating would be weird and depressing and it was starting to look like I was right.I was on a date. My date was determined to ...

How my neighbor presented me with a sex conundrum

How my neighbor presented me with a sex conundrum

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The other day I was stopped in the lobby of my apartment block by my female neighbor.She had gone gym crazy and wanted to tell me about it. Could I ...

Online dating tips: Does losing weight make you sexier?

Online dating tips: Does losing weight make you sexier?

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A short while ago I was surprised to receive a "first approach" type message in an online dating inbox from someone who l remembered well but had evidently forgotten me."Don't ...

How virtual BDSM sex with my Tinder match made lockdown better (part 1)

How virtual BDSM sex with my Tinder match made lockdown better (part 1)

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Every survey on sexual fantasies ever carried out ranks it as one of the world's favourite kinks but masochism is often a truth that dare not speak its name.It's not ...